Kissing a girl for the first time, whether it’s your first kiss or just the first time you’re kissing a new girlfriend, is an exciting prospect for most guys!
However, if your first kiss does not go well, there is a good chance that first kiss will also be the last. You see, many, girls decide right after their first kiss whether they will ever kiss the same guy again.
For many guys, kissing a girl or getting to “first base” is often just a step towards getting more intimate with a girl. Girls on the other hand will often judge a guy by the way he kisses. It will often determine their opinion on whether or not he will be a good partner.
Your first kiss does not have to be perfect from a physical standpoint. If she has had other boyfriends in the past, you don’t need to kiss her like she has never been kissed before. It does not have to be a long and passionate kiss either. What is important though is that it has to be a positive and memorable experience for her. It should not be easily forgettable.
What Should I Do Before I Kiss a Girl?
Here are some things you should do to prepare for that big moment of the first kiss.
Have good breath. Nothing will kill a first kiss for a girl more than the taste of something like onions or cigarettes if your a smoker. Before going out with a girl, brush your teeth and tongue. You should also use mouth was as well. If you go out to eat somewhere, you should pack some type of breath freshener.
Avoid having chapped lips. Dry and cracked lips do not make for a pleasant kissing experience. Use any type of remedy to for treatment, such as a topical cream.
Make sure she is interested. If you are explicitly on a date, then she likely has an interest in you. Even so, you should still make sure she is comfortable with you. Try to get a good read on the mood and how she is feeling. If she leans in a lot when she speaks to you, or touches you a lot and seems to stay close, she will probably be receptive to your advances. If you are really unsure, you may have to directly ask her if you can kiss her. This can be very awkward and isn’t very romantic, but it is better than making her uncomfortable with a kiss she doesn’t want.
Be in a private spot. A first kiss can be awkward, and it can be worse if it occurs in a crowded place. You should ideally find a quiet and private place for your first kiss. A good place and time would when you are out for a walk, when you’re leaving a movie, or when you part ways at the end of the night.